GURMEHAK KOUR

  "MEN are one of the most wondrous creations of the God." Over the ages, people have been stepping up to stand up for women's and children's rights. But, a large section of the other part of the society remains unattended. Yes, we as a society have failed to value our men; who are just as important as any other being. We have idealized the dialogue, "MARD KO DARD NAHI HOTA" ; a man doesn't feel any pain. And amidst everything, we failed to let them be humans; humans with emotions that they express.  "IF A CRYING LITTLE BOY WAS COMFORTED, RATHER THAN TELLING HIM "LADKE ROTE NAHI HAIN", THERE WOULDN'T BE SO MANY MEN TRYING TO EMPATHIZE WITH EMOTIONS." Men are facing abuse, mental disorders, domestic violence, depression-like any other gender out there. Society showed them that talking about mental issues, abuse, the violence they are facing will mark a question on their masculinity; as a result, they don't express what went wr...

"Ofcourse, there is no formula for a happy life, than accepting what life brings to your door." The unpredictable nature of life is what makes it so interesting and worthy. Nothing is ever enduring. Each human, everything evolves everyday.  How do you plan to live peacefully without coping up with the changes? When you resist a change, it's same as opposing the flow of a river, you can't succeed in it. Similarly, when you are fighting back and not accepting the changes whether in your environment, your physical looks or lifestyle; you are just making yourself to go through unnecessary trauma. The youth is failing to accept that the aspect of their lives they consider to be imperfect is just the way it should be.  Diving deep into it, today's generation is facing issues with accepting their authentic beauty. They have set up their own beauty standards, lifestyle standards. anything less than that is just not enough for them. This unacceptance is causing mental stre...